Tuesday, September 24, 2013

The Simple Life

Almost a year ago I started the 30 days of thankfulness on facebook.  I thought it might be hard to come up with 30 things to be thankful for.  Luckily I have two children born in the month of November, so I knew I had two days down easily. :)  When I got to the end of the 30 days of thankfulness, someone posted about continuing on the challenge for a whole year.  Yikes!  365 days of finding something to be thankful for.  I had read Ann Voskamp's 1,000 Gifts and thought if she could find that many things to be thankful for, surely I could do one a day.  So, the challenge began.

It's been such a great reminder for me to remember the simple things in life, things I easily take for granted on a daily basis.  There have been some tough days......days that I wish I could do over.   There have been days where I've lost my temper when I should have remained calm.  There are days when it felt like everything was against me.  But, in the midst of those tough days there is still good. He gave me another day of life.  He gave me clean water to drink.  He gave me a roof over my head, clothes to wear, and the list could go on.

This past Sunday our sermon came from Ecclesiastes.  Our pastor started off talking about a man from his previous congregation.  He told us that this man valued the simple things in life.  He valued his faith and his family.  He loved his son dearly and doted on his wife.  His life came to an end on this earth a few years ago and "Simple Man" was sung at his funeral.  He went on to talk about how we need to embrace the simple, everyday mundane things...we need to embrace the daily opportunities to treasure God.  In chapter 2 of Ecclesiastes the author sought out pleasure in his work, building houses, planting gardens, and drinking wine.  He owned slaves and had more herds than anyone.  He gained silver and gold.  He had anything a man would desire and yet he didn't feel fulfilled.  He realized that all of it meant nothing.  One day he would die and none of it would go with him.

We need to stop and enjoy the things of this life that God has given us.  Often we are distracted, too busy to pause and savor our Savior.  How often are we checking our phones, email, our watch to see what time it is.  Our pastor challenged us to savor the food, tell stories, give our mother a hug, write a note, take a picture, etc.  We need to pause and thank God for the blessings of the day.

This made me think back to growing up as a kid on the farm.  I saw my dad work hard.  He was up early and during the spring and fall often came in late, long after the sun had set for the night.  There were times we would bring my dad his supper out in the field.  I got to ride in the tractor or combine and "help" with the crops.  He also let me help with sorting hogs. I often chased pigs around and listened to them squeal.  Those are such great memories for me.  It's because of those simple things that I now see the love my dad invested in us.  Even if he couldn't be in the house with us at supper, he found ways for us to be together.  He invested time in his family while trying to provide for us.

I see it in Jeremy now, too.  He spends so much time investing in our kids.  He tries to teach them the value of hard work.  I hope through our actions we are teaching them to appreciate the things God does for us each and every day, to invest in people and relationships and not in the things that we will not take with us one day when our life on earth is complete.

Tonight I will be like Jeremy, ending this post with a song by Lynyrd Skynyrd "Simple Man".  While typing this post tonight we heard it again on The Voice.  I think it was a reminder to again pause, remember what our teaching was about this week and put it into action.



Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Meaningless, Meaningless

Hey all, remember me?  Yeah it's been awhile since I've been on.  I've been a little busy.  Right now it is soccer season, and yes, I am coaching two teams, just like baseball season.  That's okay.  I love it.  I love kids.  I love sports.  I love teaching kids to play sports so they will love it.
Well a little bit of whats been happening on the adoption front.  Our home study is completed, AND, approved by our agency's national office.  The past couple of weeks Sarah and I, mostly Sarah, have been working on our dossier.  That will also get paired with our home study.  We are in the home stretch of paper work for now.
I have spent a lot of time thinking about what our pastor preached on Sunday.  It was from Ecclesiastes 1:  (vs) 2. "Meaningless!  Meaningless!" says the Teacher. "Utterly meaningless!  Everything is meaningless." 3. What does man gain from all his labor from which he toils under the sun?  4. Generations come and generations go. but the earth remains forever.
He read some more but my mind seemed to stop at those verses.  After verse four I started thinking about orphans, naturally, and then thinking about myself, then thinking about Mother Teresa.  Now I can't remember anything he preached about.  I was thinking that generations come and go, but how many of those people do I remember.  Even my great grandmother I barely remember.  I wonder if this is how orphans think and feel.  Some tragedy had to have happened in order for them to end up in an orphanage.  So they might start to think that everything is meaningless.   That they will come and go and no one will remember them.  Worse yet, they may feel that no one has cared enough to love them.  Then I started thinking of Mother Teresa and all of the selfless love she poured out to the "least of these", and how everyone around the world knows her for this.  In turn, people have been inspired by the love she showed and they now pour out their love on others like she did.  We had some friends that donated a very large sum of money for our adoption.  As we were very grateful for this we also felt like we needed to tell them that we are working on making donations tax deductible through an organization, and maybe they wanted to wait to see if everything worked out.  They told us that they did not do this looking for a tax write off, but instead said they did it because we are their friends and are proud of what we are doing.  Now to me that is inspiration.  Then I thought about my own life.  Have I done enough to show God's love to the "least of these"?  Some people will say that helping one orphan is a lot, but I'm here to tell you, for me, I don't think it will ever be done.  Yeah maybe one day we will stop adopting kids. Maybe, no promises.  Honestly, I hope I am never content with the amount of love I show "the least of these".  I guess even more than wanting to adopt our sixth child (this current process is for our fifth) I want to inspire others.  I figure if I can inspire others then they will pay it forward, and want to inspire others, and so on, and so on.  Just imagine the possibilities.

I leave you with a cool song off of VOTA's newest album



Rock on
J